Learning To Say No
Today I tweeted something that seemed to resonate with others. This was the tweet, with an embedded quote from this post (h/t Joel):
Don’t accept the deadlines of others as your own. H/t @joelgascoigne pic.twitter.com/vF2oo8gZ80
— John Doherty (@dohertyjf) December 16, 2014
This was the quote:
“You can only go so fast for so long. You have natural output limitations. Other people rarely consider that when they ask for stuff and set deadlines. In fact, they rarely consider anything. Most times, I find the expectations that other people have around time are arbitrary. They don’t *really* need that thing right now–and if you gave it to them tomorrow, the world will go on.
Don’t be afraid to say, “It’s not going to happen by that time. Here’s when I can have it for you.”
There’s really no way to argue against that. If you draw lines and say no, they’re just going to have to figure out an alternative and accept. ” Read more about Learning To Say No …